Beware of false friends! You all know the type, buddy-buddy to your face while they sink a sword into your back, nothing better to do than to gossip about you within your community, furious when you don’t have time for their nonsense and cut them out of your life. Worse yet, they pretend to be your friend and a friend to others when all they do to everyone is trash talk them behind their backs!
When this type of person finds out that you are aware of everything that they have had to say from the start and they are caught, unable to deny it any longer, they try to turn it around onto you. You made them two-faced, you talked about them, you called them to the carpet and put them on the spot, you are the trouble making gossiper! Hell, you are the sole reason that they are two-faced with virtually everyone they know or have ever met!
False friends are probably one of life’s hardest lessons, to be wary of everyone because of this type is horrible, by the same token, to see that there are such evil people out there makes one leery. They actually believe that they have been good friends and that others have taken advantage of their so called friendship and “kindness”! I would have to brush up on my psychology but I know that there are shared traits with……. is it a socio or psychopath? Perhaps it could be both.
These false friends need to believe that they are right, the rest of the world is wrong, they are always a victim even as the venom drips from their mouths. They need approval, to hear that they are right and they cannot survive without an audience, someone to hear all of the nasty crap that pours from their mouths, they tell the same things to every other person they see and often they are suffering in some way, be it always having some type of medical issue or their feelings are supposedly hurt. The type needs two things to be able to go on, pity and an audience for them to play to, when they are alone with their thoughts (God only knows what those dark thoughts are), they feel even sorrier for themselves.
Beware, I mean that, watch out for these false friends lurking about your life, run far and fast if you encounter one or worse, more than one at a time. Even though life is full of them, the stress of knowing that your trust was misplaced and that you wasted so much time on those with a lack of morals can make your life significantly more miserable.